In the past few years, there has been a legal tug-of-war when it comes to the issue of change of domicile. Through the Michigan court system, parents pull the rope that is their child in hopes that if he or she pulls hard enough, the child will ultimately end up living in the state where the parent desires to be.
Last year, Charla French McKimmy was informed that she could not move from Jackson, Michigan to North Dakota with her four and five year-old sons. Mrs. McKimmy desired to move so that she could join her husband, who is an engineer in North Dakota. Jackson Circuit Court Judge Susan Beebe ruled that the 1,100 mile distance would be too far away from the boys’ father, Mr. Patrick Melling. The court record alluded that the reasoning behind the denial was that the move would create a strain on the boys’ relationship with their father. If Judge Beebe had granted the change of domicile motion, Mr. Melling, who has become accustomed to seeing his sons on alternate weekends, would only be able to see them in the summer and scarcely at all during the school year. However, that may become a reality, as earlier this year the Michigan Court of Appeals set aside the Order and the case was sent back to Judge Beebe for a further look into the best interest factors of the children under Michigan Compiled Law 722.31. Ultimately, Mr. Melling may lose this tug-of-war, and the ability to regularly spend time with his children.
Michigan law has determined that in a joint custody issue under MCL 722.31, unless stated otherwise, “a parent of a child whose custody is governed by court order shall not change a legal residence of the child to a location that is more than 100 miles from the child’s legal residence” without the judge’s permission or the consent of the other parent. However, such a change of domicile can occur if the court determines after looking at MCL 722.31(4) factors that the child will benefit and the parental relationship will not be detrimentally harmed.
The courts in McKimmy v Melling have been in dispute over factor MCL 722.31(4)(c). Factor (c) states that if parenting time can be modified to still allow an adequate parental relationship between the parent and child, the legal residence change is permitted. In McKimmy, the use of technology as a medium to allow for contact and parenting time has been brought forth as a solution to the distance issue. Skype, e-mail, and the telephone have been argued as ways to fill the void of lack of physical contact. However, Melling stated, “I don’t believe in technological touch. I believe in human touch.” Judge Beebe must now determine if the “proposed parenting time schedule provides ‘a realistic opportunity to preserve and foster the parental relationship’” that Mr. Melling has with his sons.
Judge Beebe, who in the past allowed a mother to move with her children to Ohio in order for the mother to be able to provide a better life for herself and her sons, mentions that the change of domicile cases are “very difficult.” Yet, Judge Beebe must also make the difficult decision of determining if Mrs. McKimmy’s change of domicile motion should be granted this time or denied again.
Michigan judges have the tough job of determining if parents want to move their children beyond the 100 mile limit to provide a better life for the child, or just out of spite for the other parent. With the child custody battles that have been ensuing and the economic downturn in Michigan, it is hard to tell which motives prevail for parents who wish to have a change of domicile motion granted. This is one tug-of-war that may continue for years to come. Yet, some of Michigan’s top family law attorneys can help reduce this war with skill, keen perception, and the recognition that the child’s best interest and the parental relationship are the most important aspects when taking on such difficult cases.