
In Oakland County and across Michigan, families are relying on technology to stay connected with their children. This is especially true for parents with parenting time schedules. Whether through Zoom, FaceTime, or regular phone calls, Michigan courts recognize that meaningful contact can sometimes happen electronically, especially when in-person parenting time is limited by distance, safety concerns, or special circumstances. Oakland County judges may even include sections regarding virtual parenting time in the custody order. However, the best way to ensure you have the right to virtual parenting time is to hire a skilled Oakland County family attorney who will protect your rights.
Michigan Law on Parenting Time
Under Michigan law, parenting time must be granted in a way that promotes a strong parent–child relationship as long as there are no safety concerns. The Oakland County Circuit Court has wide discretion to include “any reasonable condition” in a parenting time order. This includes electronic or virtual communication.
An Oakland County judge can specifically allow phone calls, texting, or video calls to make sure a parent can stay involved. Technology-related provisions are ideal when physical parenting time isn’t possible due to distance or an inability to be present. Oakland County custody orders are typically written in specific terms so both parents know exactly when and how the virtual contact will take place.
When Courts Order Virtual Parenting Time
The Oakland County Circuit Court may order virtual parenting time in situations such as:
- Long-distance parenting (e.g., a parent relocates for work or military service).
- Temporary barriers to in-person contact (hospitalization, quarantine, or travel restrictions).
- In cases where in-person visits may be limited due to child safety concerns, but contact remains appropriate.
- For incarcerated parents, the Oakland County court may allow phone or video contact to preserve the parent–child relationship.
Virtual Parenting Time and the Friend of the Court
The Oakland County Friend of the Court (FOC) plays a significant role in enforcing parenting time orders. If disputes arise, the FOC may:
- Enforce existing orders, including virtual contact provisions.
- Recommend modifications to add or adjust electronic parenting time.
- Address violations, including missed or blocked phone/video calls, which are treated as parenting time denial.
Without a clear court order detailing the terms of the virtual contact, the FOC may have limited power to enforce “informal” phone or video contact arrangements. You should speak with your attorney about making sure your custody order specifically allows phone and video contact with your child to protect your rights.
Why You Need an Attorney
Oakland County judges understand that every family is different. They always look at the best interests of the child when deciding whether to order virtual parenting time. Without legal guidance, parents risk losing certain rights or having vague orders that create more conflict. A skilled Oakland County custody attorney can:
- Draft parenting time orders that include specific terms regarding frequency, duration, and method of virtual contact.
- Petition the court to modify an existing order to include virtual contact.
- Advocate for enforcement if the other parent blocks calls or refuses to cooperate.
- Ensure that virtual parenting time supplements, not replaces, your in-person relationship.
FAQs About Virtual Parenting Time in Michigan
Q: Is virtual parenting time a substitute for in-person visits?
No. In most cases, Michigan courts see virtual contact as supplemental to in-person parenting time. However, if there are safety concerns with in-person visits, the virtual contact may act as a substitute.
Q: How specific should a virtual parenting time order be?
Very specific. Orders should state the day, time, and method (e.g., “Wednesday at 7:00 p.m. via Zoom”). You should speak with your attorney about how the order should be drafted to ensure that your rights are protected.
Q: What if my ex blocks video calls that are in the order?
That may be treated as a denial of parenting time. The FOC can enforce the order, and the court may issue sanctions. If your ex is blocking contact between you and your child, you must speak with your attorney as soon as possible.
Q: Do I need a lawyer to request virtual parenting time?
Yes. While you can file on your own, an attorney ensures your order is enforceable, detailed, and in your child’s best interests.
Call Our Oakland County Firm Today!
Whether through FaceTime, Zoom, or phone calls, courts recognize the value of maintaining consistent parent–child contact. At The Kronzek Firm, we understand Virtual parenting time is an important tool for families in Oakland County and throughout Michigan. We represent residents of Oakland County and surrounding counties like Livingston, Macomb, and Wayne in custody and divorce actions and ensure that custody orders are drafted carefully and specifically. We will fight to ensure that your right to contact your child when they are not physically with you is protected. If you need to establish or enforce virtual parenting time, consult with one of our skilled Oakland County custody attorneys who can advocate for you and ensure your child stays connected to both parents. Contact us today for a consultation. You can send us an email at contactus@kronzek.law at any time.
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